WHAT WOMEN WANTS IN MEN?
Have you ever asked yourself a question, “What the hell do women want”?
Have you ever wondered what they talk behind men’s back? Women can be very difficult to figure out – and this can drive a man crazy at times. Men desperately want to know the answer for this question. But, there are few things to help men better understand what a woman wants out of a
relationship, and how they can give it to them. There are certain qualities every woman can appreciate. And as men, that’s what we need to focus on most.
A man who knows how to communicate with women.
Listen up, men. Knowing how to communicate with women is critical for maintaining a great relationship. Women love and need to be listened to, really listened to, and need to have their feelings acknowledged. Be an active listener and include modesty because a lot of men, me included, have a problem letting someone take the floor for an extended period of time. They like to hear their own voice and want others to hear it too. These men want to dominate the conversation and hold court, so to speak. This is not, sad to say but a base for ruining a good relationship. So toss your ego aside and let her speak. And above all else, let her have the last word once in a while. Focus on her nonverbal communication.
Look at your girl when she is talking to you, turn off the TV, stop playing video game, take off your head phones, stop whatever it is you’re doing and give her your full attention. If it’s truly a bad time for you to discuss an issue, then agree on the soonest possible time that’s convenient for both of you. After listening her now is your time to tell her what you think of what she has just said. If you disagree with her, calmly state your reasons. You can still respect what she says/thinks, even if you disagree.
A feeling of security
Women want to feel safe with a man. They want to know that everything’s gonna be all right. This doesn’t mean you have to be huge and strong, or have millions in the bank. It just means you have to talk reassuringly to her, look after her safety, and assure her when she needs it that things are going to be OK.
It also means coming to her protection, when she needs it. If someone is being a jerk to her, stand up for her. If she’s being threatened, fight for her. Let her know that you will fight for her, and nothing will get in your way.
One of the best ways to make her feel confident that you will protect her, of course, is to be…
A men with sense of humor
A woman will almost always love a man who can make her laugh. I have heard having a good sense of humor often helps in breaking the ice. Also people remember you because of your wit and humor. If you are dull, you are boring. If you make a woman laugh, you’re halfway home. Take a chance, be real, but be funny. There are several seduction experts who claim that being “funny” is one of the two most important qualities to attracting a woman. I agree.
A men who is in shape
Ok, one thing I tell you that you don’t have to be a look alike of Brad Pitt or any professional rugby player to attract women, but that doesn’t mean you should let your body slide! Part of a woman’s evolutionary mechanism says that a man who is strong will protect her and the children, as well as produce strong children. Likewise, a man who is weak will produce weak children, and not be able to protect the family as well
So show her your value by being a guy who’s well-built, healthy, and athletic. Join a gym, not just to get women but to improve your health and the way you see yourself. Join a martial arts class. Who doesn’t like a guy who can kick some ass? You’ll feel better about yourself, making it easier to pick up girls, and her mating drive will only naturally attract her to you. It’s a win-win situation!
A hot sex too
Women love great sex – “great” being the key word. Women like the way it feels to have their man touching them, kissing them, whispering sexy words in their ears and trying new things to keep it interesting.
What women don’t like is getting into bed expecting to get something out of it only to be done two minutes later. If this is a pattern, you may just lose your girl’s interest.
Pay attention to a woman’s signs – and work her up to wanting you. Not that she doesn’t want you already, but sometimes all the other day to day activities are so present that she needs you to call her back to that place where you can have fun together. Give her a reason to be there. Take your time, do those things she likes (you know exactly what they are) even if it takes longer than anticipated. Put yourself second and focus only on her and she’ll be screaming in no time. Then she’ll have the inclination to get you to that wonderful place too.
With you, she wants to feel like a sex goddess, like she is the only woman who can offer you this wonderful intimate feeling. If you can get her there, you are in for the sexual ride of your life!
And finally a man with purpose, heading towards success
Believe me this is the most important aspect which I feel every woman wants in her Man. It is clear that women don’t want that their guy should be worth 100 million dollars, or should be more powerful than the president of the state. They don’t expect you to be wildly successful. But they want you to be headed towards success. They want that you are aiming towards your goal. They do want you to have direction. And those aren’t bad expectations to have! Remember, “Behind every great man is a great woman.” You may not be at the top just yet, but as long as you’re heading there, with goals in life, you’re bound to attract women. And more importantly, reach your own personal success.
I hope all of this advice helps you out as you seek to improve yourself and attract the women who matter to you. So good luck buddy !!!
